From my 83-year-old Oma’s horror when someone leaks to her that I am able to lift 350 lb. off the ground—and her absolute disgust when she sees my unfeminine calloused hands—to her utter confusion when she sees three of her under-21-year-old nephews zoned into their electronic devices on the couch: The holidays are always a time when people of all sorts come together and try to make sense of each other. A time when nobody’s ignorance is left unexposed.